👋Hey, Ocean friends!

November is coming in with Neil Diamond singalongs, cranberry picking and enough craft fairs to get your holiday shopping moving. We’ve also got library concerts, fresh TV picks and a few Thanksgiving tables where your only responsibility is showing up hungry.

Grab your calendar. There’s plenty worth penciling in.

👀In this week’s Scoop:

🍂 Weekend Plans: Restaurant deals, wine tastings and boardwalk bites
🎶 Out & About: Live music, local markets and cranberry picking
🗞️ News & Notes: Big-screen holiday plans and seasonal treats
📚 Beyond the Books: Concerts, crafts, games and useful advice
📺 TV Time: What’s worth a spot on your watch list
✈️ Wanderlust Weekly: Alaska, Egypt and Mediterranean daydreams
🇺🇸 Honoring Our Veterans: Ceremonies and a thank-you meal
🦃 Thanksgiving Out: Dinner without the dishes
🎂 Birthday Wishes: Anne T. and some familiar names

Up first…

Two movies for your holiday radar: Johnny Depp plays Scrooge in Ebenezer, a ghostly retelling of A Christmas Carol, opening Nov. 13. Then Ben Stiller and Robert De Niro reunite—with Ariana Grande joining the family—in Focker-In-Law, arriving Nov. 25. Christmas spirit and family chaos heading to the big screen? Two good reasons to plan a movie date.

Dessert now comes with a coffee lid: Starbucks’ holiday menu arrives Nov. 5, bringing back Peppermint Mocha, Caramel Brulée Latte and Cranberry Bliss Bars, alongside a new Tiramisu Velvet drink lineup. See the seasonal menu.

Thanksgiving math worth checking: Walmart says its $35 holiday meal basket serves 10, with ingredients for turkey, sides and dessert. Available through Dec. 24; check local pricing and availability. Cooking duties, alas, are still yours. See what’s included.

Three courses, one good excuse: Jersey Shore Restaurant Week offers three-course meals at participating Shore restaurants for $32.26 or $42.26, Nov. 6–15. Try somewhere new—or give your favorite another vote of confidence.

Worth a trip north: The NJ Wine Expo gathers New Jersey wineries at the Bell Works Ballroom in Holmdel, Saturday, Nov. 7, noon–5 p.m., with more than 130 wines to sample and winemakers to meet. Tickets: $39–$54; designated drivers: $10.

Links to the latest news on aging.

5 Ways to Help Your Adult Children Financially Without Ruining Your Own Retirement: From helping with rent to bailing their grown kids out of a financial bind, parents sometimes find themselves opening their wallets long after the college tuition bills were supposed to end. Money, Oct. 26.

Regret Signing Up for Social Security in 2026? Here's What You Can Do: You thought you were ready to apply for Social Security benefits, but a few months in, you're second-guessing that decision. The Motley Fool, Oct. 26.

What Happens When Social Security Thinks You're Dead? As many as 12,000 people a year are mistakenly declared dead by the SSA, stopping their Social Security and Medicare benefits cold. Here's what to do if it happens to you. Kiplinger, Oct. 31.

What's Gone Up Even Faster Than Gas or Rent? The Cost of Caregiving: As prices have ticked up in recent years, the cost to caregivers has skyrocketed. NPR, Oct. 28.

See what’s happening in Ocean County this weekend.

Good times never seemed so good: Jay White brings The Sweet Caroline Tour to The Strand Theater in Lakewood, celebrating Neil Diamond’s hits with a live band. Friday, Nov. 6, at 8 p.m.; doors open at 6:30 p.m. You probably won’t need help with the chorus.

Start small—and shop local: The Craft & Vendor Fair at Christ Lutheran Church in Whiting features handmade crafts, jewelry, home decorations and baked goods. Saturday, Nov. 7, 9 a.m.–2 p.m. A good place to find a gift with a little personality.

Someone else’s attic could be your treasure chest: The Holly Berry Bazaar at First United Methodist Church in Toms River offers quilts, jewelry, holiday decorations, books, plants, baked goods and vintage finds. Saturday, Nov. 7, 9 a.m.–3 p.m. Proceeds support charitable giving. Cash only; free parking and an accessible venue.

Meet your Thanksgiving cranberries: The Cranberry Experience at Headley Family Farm in West Creek combines local history with 20 minutes of dry cranberry picking—and you keep what you pick. An apple cider doughnut and cider round out the visit. Saturday, Nov. 7, 10 a.m.–noon. $25 per person.

Gifts with a personal touch: Browse crafts, jewelry, clothing, specialty foods, baked goods and home décor at the Autumn Harvest & Craft Vendor Fair at Bayville Elks Lodge. Saturday, Nov. 7, 10 a.m.–3 p.m. Free admission. Indoor and outdoor shopping, weather permitting; proceeds benefit special-needs, youth and drug-awareness programs.

A hundred vendors, one stop: The Indian Band Wagon Fall Craft & Vendor Fair fills Toms River Intermediate South in Beachwood with more than 100 vendors, handmade gifts, seasonal décor and treats. Saturday, Nov. 7, 10 a.m.–3 p.m. Free admission; indoors, rain or shine. Food trucks and a 50/50 raffle round out the fundraiser for the high school marching band.

Shop in support of the squad: The Stafford Township EMS Auxiliary hosts a craft and vendor shopping event at Southern Regional High School’s 9/10 gymnasium in Manahawkin, Saturday, Nov. 7, 10 a.m.–4 p.m. Tackle the gift list while supporting local emergency responders.

Keep the browsing going: The Holiday Vendor Show at Howell-Jackson Columbia Club in Jackson features more than 50 indoor and outdoor vendors, with lunch and beverages available. Saturday, Nov. 7, 10 a.m.–4 p.m.; rain date Nov. 8.

A toast to sweater weather: The Sip in Autumn Wine Festival returns to Veterans Park in Bayville, Saturday–Sunday, Nov. 7–8, 11:30 a.m.–4:30 p.m. daily. Enjoy New Jersey wines, food, live music and local makers. Sampling tickets for ages 21 and older: $20 in advance or $25 cash at the gate, including a souvenir glass. Non-samplers and guests under 21 enter free.

Give the grandkids an afternoon outdoors: Head to Jakes Branch County Park in Beachwood for hayrides, a petting zoo, lawn games, live music and children’s crafts. Saturday, Nov. 7, 1–4 p.m. Free admission, with food trucks on site.

Turn Saturday into something good: Kiwanis Pointsgiving brings community groups and donors together at Community Park in Point Pleasant Borough, Saturday, Nov. 7, 1–4 p.m. Check participating organizations’ wish lists before gathering donations; accepted used items should be in good condition. Bad-weather location: Point Pleasant Beach High School gym.

Oktoberfest gets a November encore: Lacey PBA 238’s Oktoberfest at Argos Farm features music by The Pickles, a pig roast from the Forked River German Butcher Shop, beer, wine, cider, fire pits and farm activities. Saturday, Nov. 7, 2–6 p.m.; rain date Nov. 8.

A little harmony for your Saturday night: The Everly Brothers Experience featuring the Zmed Brothers celebrates Don and Phil’s signature harmonies and lasting influence on rock ’n’ roll, with music, stories and a little brotherly humor. Saturday, Nov. 7, at 8 p.m., The Strand Theater, Lakewood; doors open at 7 p.m.

The Jersey Devil has an encore, too: Albert Music Hall’s Jersey Devil Show mixes live music with Pine Barrens folklore, including Burnt Tavern’s telling of the legend. Saturday, Nov. 7, at 6 p.m.; doors open at 5 p.m., Waretown. Adults: $6; children under 12: $1. Cash only. Food and desserts are available; parking is free and the venue is wheelchair accessible. Bring an instrument to join the Pickin’ Shed jam.

An easy Sunday browse: The Fall Market at Cuisine on the Green at Atlantis in Little Egg Harbor showcases 15 small businesses offering honey, candles, jewelry, paintings, handmade wooden pieces and crochet creations. Sunday, Nov. 8, 11 a.m.–4 p.m. Shopping at a more leisurely pace.

For free entertainment and useful advice a little closer to home, let’s check the Ocean County Library calendar.

First, a calendar check: All branches and reading centers will be closed Wednesday, Nov. 11, for Veterans Day, reopening Nov. 12.

History, told by those who lived it: Army and Coast Guard veterans share their experiences during a New Jersey Vietnam Veterans’ Memorial & Museum presentation, including the documentary A Place of Honor. Wednesday, Nov. 4, 11:15 a.m.–12:15 p.m., Brick.

Put a little kindness in the mail: Make greeting cards for Meals on Wheels recipients at the Kindness Cards Project. Wednesday, Nov. 4, 7–8:30 p.m., Manchester. Drop in and help brighten someone’s delivery.

Make room for support: The Shore Memory Cafe welcomes people experiencing early cognitive changes or early-stage memory loss and their care partners, Thursday, Nov. 5, 10–11 a.m., Manchester. A Caregiver Support Group meets that day 11 a.m.–1 p.m., Barnegat; call 609-978-4728 to register. Brick’s Bereavement Support Group meets Wednesday, Nov. 4, 6:30–7:30 p.m., as part of a four-session series.

Give scammers less to work with: AARP’s The Scam Landscape covers fraud and identity theft, Thursday, Nov. 5, 2–3 p.m., Waretown. Monday, Nov. 9, brings Vigilance Against Cybercrime, 2:30–3:30 p.m., Lacey, and Identity Theft & Scams, 6:30–7:30 p.m., Toms River.

Flowers with a place at the table: Learn how edible flowers can flavor breads, cookies, jams and teas at Edible Flowers: Color, Flavor & Fun, with Rutgers Master Gardener Sue Masoorli. Thursday, Nov. 5, 3–4 p.m., Brick. Recipes included.

Your craft cupboard called. It’s full: Give clean, unused supplies a new home at the Craft Supply Swap, Friday, Nov. 6, 10 a.m.–noon, Little Egg Harbor. Donations begin at 10; swapping starts at 11. No donation is necessary to participate; each person may take one provided shopping bag of supplies while they last.

Find the people behind the family stories: Genealogist Debbie Hadley shares 10 Best Tips for Finding Your Ancestors, Friday, Nov. 6, 11 a.m.–1 p.m., Tuckerton. Registration required. Somewhere productive to take that “I think we had a cousin…” conversation.

Know your numbers: A Hackensack Meridian Health nurse offers Free Wellness Screenings, including blood pressure, pulse, cholesterol, blood sugar, BMI and stroke risk. Friday, Nov. 6, 1–3 p.m., Brick. No fasting or registration required.

Connection for the whole family: The LGBTQIA+ Resource Fair brings support organizations, workshops and an AIDS Memorial Quilt panel to Toms River, Saturday, Nov. 7, 11 a.m.–3 p.m. Parents, grandparents, caregivers and allies are welcome. Comedian Julia Scotti shares her story 2–3 p.m.

Stretch or be spellbound: Try beginner-friendly Chair Yoga, Saturday, Nov. 7, 2–3 p.m., Jackson, or enjoy comedy and illusions at Magic for Adults, 2:30–3:15 p.m., Brick.

Bring your yarn—or your winning tiles: Beginners are welcome at Mah Jongg in Waretown, Wednesday, Nov. 4, noon–4 p.m. Stafford’s drop-in String of Purls meets Thursday, Nov. 5, 1–3 p.m., and Saturday, Nov. 7, 10 a.m.–noon. Ready for cable knitting? Register for the Waretown Woolies workshop, Saturday, Nov. 7, 11 a.m.–2 p.m.

Monday has entertainment covered: Catch Project Hail Mary, Nov. 9, 1–3:30 p.m., Barnegat, or Hamnet, 6–8:25 p.m., Tuckerton. Both are rated PG-13; Hamnet is drop-in. Prefer making music? The Bayside Ukulele Group welcomes all levels 3–4:30 p.m., Stafford. Bring your own ukulele.

Twenty-five years deserves cake: Jackson Library’s anniversary celebration begins Tuesday, Nov. 10, at 10 a.m., with remarks and cake cutting. Jay Daniels performs Jersey Boys and Jersey Girls: Music Born in the Garden State 11 a.m.–12:30 p.m., with cotton candy available noon–2 p.m. Sinatra, Springsteen and sweets: a solid lineup.

Before the holiday table fills up: Sweet Success: Navigating Diabetes During the Holidays brings Hackensack Meridian Health educators to Brick, Tuesday, Nov. 10, 2:30–3:30 p.m. Earlier, a SNAP Navigator information table, noon–2 p.m., offers answers about grocery assistance.

Looking ahead: The Ocean County Health Department presents Diabetes and Heart Health, Friday, Nov. 13, 3–4:30 p.m., Waretown.

That’s plenty of reasons to leave the house. For the nights you’re staying in…

Your Sunday-night society is back: Season 4 of The Gilded Age premiered Nov. 1 on HBO and HBO Max, so there’s still time to catch up with the upstairs crowd and their downstairs drama. The manners are impeccable. The motives? Less so.

Let the holiday baking begin: Holiday Baking Championship returned to Food Network Monday, Nov. 2, at 8 p.m. All the seasonal baking ambition, with someone else washing the mixing bowls.

A ringside seat to history: The Greatest follows Muhammad Ali’s life beyond the fights, exploring the personal moments behind the legend. Jaalen Best stars. All eight episodes arrive Wednesday, Nov. 4, on Prime Video.

Second chances, with a nine iron: Owen Wilson returns in Stick, about a former pro golfer finding purpose through a talented young player and an unlikely circle of friends. Season 2 premieres Wednesday, Nov. 4, on Apple TV with two episodes, followed by weekly releases. Golf expertise optional.

For the “just one more episode” crowd: Keira Knightley, Ben Whishaw and Sarah Lancashire return in Black Doves. Helen’s public life as the prime minister’s wife collides with her secret work as a spy. Season 2 arrives Thursday, Nov. 5, on Netflix.

Family recipes, meet the learning curve: Awkwafina comes from a restaurant family. One small problem: she can’t cook. In Awkwafina: The Unlikely Cook, she takes a culinary road trip to learn the craft and help revive her family’s Chinese restaurant. Premieres Friday, Nov. 6, on Apple TV. For anyone who inherited the recipes without inheriting the knack.

Watching someone else take a trip can give you ideas. Which brings us to…

Alaska, with history on the side: Holland America marks 80 years in Alaska in 2027 with more than three dozen Alaska Heritage Tours. Experiences include the White Pass scenic railroad, glacier visits and Kenai Fjords wildlife cruises. Available on select cruises and land-and-sea cruise tours; booking is now open.

Egypt gets a longer look: Viking’s new 19-day Grand Nile Journey, beginning in 2028, combines four hotel nights in Cairo with a 14-night sailing aboard Viking Ra. Seventeen guided tours include the pyramids, Grand Egyptian Museum and lesser-visited Nile sites. Ancient history, with time to take it in.

Put the Mediterranean on the calendar: Norwegian Bella is open for booking, with seven-day round-trip Barcelona sailings starting in May 2028. Ports serve Rome and Florence, plus Salerno, Marseille and Palma de Mallorca. Planning ahead is easier when the plan includes Italy.

Let someone else handle the driving: Amtrak’s new Airo trains entered service on the Cascades route in the Pacific Northwest on Sept. 30. Something to consider if Washington and Oregon are on your list—and watching scenery sounds better than watching traffic.

Back home, an important November observance is approaching.

Veterans Day is Wednesday, Nov. 11. Here are several ways to recognize and thank those who served.

Gather in Toms River: Ocean County College’s Salute to Veterans begins at noon at the campus Veterans Memorial. Open to the public, rain or shine; no registration required.

A moment of remembrance in Holmdel: The New Jersey Vietnam Veterans’ Memorial holds its annual ceremony at 11 a.m., with speakers and ceremonial wreath laying. The public is welcome.

A salute aboard the battleship: Battleship New Jersey in Camden hosts a free public ceremony at 11 a.m. on the ship’s fantail. Ceremony admission does not necessarily include a ship tour.

A thank-you you can take to lunch: Freddy’s Frozen Custard & Steakburgers gives veterans and active-duty military personnel a free combo-meal card when they visit Nov. 11 with valid military ID. No purchase necessary; redeem it through Nov. 25. A fitting tradition for a restaurant named after World War II veteran Freddy Simon.

All the trimmings. None of the washing up.

Thanksgiving is Thursday, Nov. 26, and these Ocean County spots are planning holiday meals. If your preferred kitchen assignment is making the reservation, here’s where to start.

Turkey with a waterfront view: Water Street Bar & Grille in Toms River offers roast turkey with apricot-sausage stuffing, cranberry sauce, green beans with candied pecans and a choice of potatoes. Soup or salad and dessert round out the meal; the regular menu will also be available. Advertised price: $30 adults; $15 children under 12.

Let someone else handle the feast: Artisan’s Restaurant & Brewery in Toms River is serving a Thanksgiving buffet with traditional holiday entrées, sides and seasonal cocktails. Seatings begin at noon. Takeout is also available if you’d rather celebrate at home without starting the day peeling potatoes.

Bring an appetite to Little Egg Harbor: LBI National Golf & Resort hosts its annual Thanksgiving buffet, 2–7 p.m., featuring turkey and prime rib carving stations, sausage-and-sage stuffing, candied yams, mashed potatoes and more. Pumpkin and pecan pies join the dessert lineup. Your toughest assignment may be leaving room.

Reserve early and confirm holiday hours, menu prices, children’s rates, tax, gratuity and any deposit requirements. Know another Ocean County restaurant serving Thanksgiving dinner? Hit reply—we’re happy to make room at the table.

Happy 69th birthday to Anne T. of Brielle! Wishing you good health, good company and plenty of cake. You’re in good birthday company this week: Nov. 5: Art Garfunkel turns 85, Herman’s Hermits singer Peter Noone is 79 and Kris Jenner is 71; Nov. 6: Sally Field turns 80 and journalist Maria Shriver is 71; Nov. 7: Joni Mitchell turns 83, Christopher Knight—forever Peter Brady— is 69 and Kiss guitarist Tommy Thayer turns 66.

This week’s assignment: pick something fun, invite someone along and leave room for a cider doughnut. We believe in achievable goals.

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Until next week,
The Ocean Senior Scoop team

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